So, I decided to take a DNA test with 23 and Me…
Besides seeing the funny things about bitter taste, sneezing, and fear of heights, it taught me nothing about my family. At least not yet…
I have been doing genealogy for over 20 years. The joke is, “Just give me a couple of names and 20 minutes, and I’ll tell you something about your past…” Yet, when I got my 1500 results, nothing looked familiar! Genealogy DNA is backward genealogy… Typically, when you work on genealogy, you start with dead people and work your way back from there in history. Dead people are easy to research. On the other hand, when you deal with genealogy DNA, you are dealing with living human beings that may choose to or not to participate in the journey. Then you have to fit where these people match up…
Sounds easy, right? NOPE! Downright frustrating! Like I said, “Dead people are easy to research.” They also weren’t so truthful about their pasts!
Here are just a couple of examples…
I have someone that is listed as a first cousin. She is either a child of one of my cousins or a child of one of my aunts or uncles… I have got it narrowed down pretty closely… Silence is what I am met with…Both from the person who took the test and my family who doesn’t want to admit or discuss that we have another family member out there…
Next, my grandfather…his mother and father are not coming back to anyone in the records…adopted?? Well, he is related to two of his sisters, as I have connected them through DNA, but not his mother or father…Is a sister actually his mother? It is appearing more and more that way, but who then are their parents? There is one person to take a test, who is 98 years old, and still might know the answer… No response from the person that could make it happen.
Basically, you have puzzle pieces that have to fit because of DNA…Yet, the puzzle is holographic and looks different depending on how you look at it until you figure out the connection. Then, and only then, it clears…It has cleared with 8 people that are now connected cousins!
Solving the puzzle is the fun part as the picture becomes crystal clear, leading to multiple connections, one after another…Leading you to ask yourself, “How did I not figure it out sooner?”